My goal has always been to be popular; I’m in the 9th grade and I am currently one of the popular girls. Popularity isn’t coming with all the perks I had in mind? I thought my relationship would boom because now that I’m popular my boyfriend would have better benifits. Well its kind of all turned around on me. I have suspicions that my boyfriend is actually cheating on me.. I haven’t done anything wrong or different and I actually feel like I couldn’t be any better of a girlfriend. We were in “love” about 7 months into our relationship. The honeymoon stages are quickly ending and something has started to change. He suddenly is too busy with homework all the time and is very irritable. Maybe it’s just a guy thing? They must all be like this, I don’t know. I am a first timer to the love game and he is much more experienced at dating than I. Things have started getting fishy when girls I have never talked to will come up to me and tell me my boyfriend is “talking” to other girls. What does this mean Sarah?

- Broken Hearted

Broken Hearted- This age is hard on us women. We are much more mature and feel like looking for love when the boys we are with are simply fulfilling their heart for the moment. Instead of trying to ignore those girls coming up to you spreading rumors about your boyfriend confront him. Because from my past experience putting things like that in the back of your head and trying to ignore it all the time just makes it harder on yourself. Maybe after confronting your boyfriend he doesn’t give you the answer you wanted to hear .. it might be for the better that you at least know.

-XO Sarah